Have you ever scrolled through your Instagram feed and see a picture posted by a girl and thought to yourself “Who does this bitch think she is?” It’s usually a “candid” photo that is pretty sexy with a witty/sassy caption to go with it.
Or even Snapchat. Tapping away through your stories and you’ll come across that one girl who looks like shes trying way too hard, and you know that she posted that for one specific person to see. Guess what? I have become that girl, and I could care less what anyone thinks.
Not gonna lie, my social media presence really changed once I became a single girl. It’s painfully obvious if you scroll through my Instagram feed. Yes, I look for the perfect angles and lighting. Yes, I do a bit of editing…and no, I don’t care what anyone thinks of what I post.
I post the pictures I do for me. I feel good, and I feel like I look good in them. If anyone else doesn’t feel that way, that’s really okay. For most of my life I’ve battled with self esteem issues, and it wasn’t until recently that I started helping myself and feeling good about myself. And if posting an Instagram picture where I look at little sexy is offensive, then let the riots begin.
I used to think that girls posting “those” kind of pictures were just begging for attention. To be fair, some are, and obviously it’s nice to get a lot of likes and comments, but that isn’t what it’s all about. It’s about you not giving a fuck what anyone thinks. It’s about you feeling good and you putting what you want out for the world to see. Kinda like this blog…funny.
I’m not saying that getting hundreds of likes and comments on a picture is the most important thing in life, that isn’t what this is meant to be at all. I’m simply saying to all the girls out there who took a picture that they feel is borderline “too much” but love it anyway, to just post the damn picture. Post it, and feel sexy. Feel good about yourself. Because if I haven’t said this enough…who gives a fuck what other people think?